Huy's Blog

I look for quality conversations, especially now when it is increasingly hard to know what is true and what is fabricated

  • Huy Pham··

    Effort that fails looks like not enough effort

    Someone messaged me at 2am with an exam in the morning. They'd tried music, rewards, screens off, forcing themselves through the notes. Twenty minutes to get through 1 or 2 sentences, still fails.

    Then: "...it still feels like I can fix this with motivation, right technique, enough discipline. I just haven't pushed myself enough."

    When nobody else can see the limit, the only evidence is effort. So effort that fails looks like not enough effort.

    • Productivity
  • Huy Pham··

    cheap kindness

    Someone told me their meds made them jittery one day, and the people around them treated them with contempt.
    It's the same person, same week, just in a different mental state.

    It's clear to me: they were being kind to the version of you that costs them nothing.

    • Observation
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    If you're bad at time management

    Just don't.

    You will never be as good as the people who are.

    Stop trying. Learn to dance with time instead, push and pull, in sync.

    Then the projects finish together, on time, the way your body finds its place against your partner's.

    • Productivity
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    Great leader's weapon

    A great leader's weapon is their word.

    The more weight a word carries, the more effective the order, the more powerful the leader.

    Every word they say that fails to materialize makes the next one worth less.

    • Observation
  • Huy Pham··

    2 kinds of tasks

    You'll probably ask an AI to take out the trash.

    You probably WON'T ask it to take your wife to dinner.
    (unless, ugh...)

    Some tasks are worth only their result.
    Some are worth doing.

    • TECH
    • Productivity
  • Huy Pham··

    Superhumans

    With advanced gene editing, there's no avoiding the next generation of superhumans, with better overall abilities than most people.

    Many others and I are current-gen humans.

    Our strongest claim is this: we show how far a person can develop inside their natural limits.

    The superhumans will have it handed to them. We're still the ones who inspire.

    • TECH
    • Observation
  • Huy Pham··

    To Be Special

    In order to be special, first you need to be special against something.

    The bigger that something is, the more room there is to be special against it.

    A very large amount of that something is called a monoculture. Monoculture is the fertile ground for people who can offer special things.

    I've made this mistake too many times: offering something special without framing it against a monoculture, and the thing feels mundane.

    • Observation
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    Respectful design

    Every pixel should mean something.

    A product that does this is as if its creator is saying: I respect your time.

    As a designer, every element I cut causes me some agony, but I cut it anyway.

    We are not cattle. Don't feed each other slop.

    • DESIGN
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    the final god

    Gods used to be things we prayed to, in exchange for favorable weather, relationship, or politics.

    Now we are actively building one, the final one.

    • Observation
    • TECH